Learning How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend is one of the most challenging things in the world to learn on your own. That is why I am her to give you 5 simple steps to show you how to turn that friend into your girlfriend, and get out of the friend zone forever.
There are numerous men who want to change the status of their relationship with their girl friend.
The good news there is a step-by-step system you can follow that'll turn that female friend into your girlfriend. Now I have to warn you some of these techniques are a little intense. So if you 're not a brave person then I recommend you read no further...
But if you're tired of watching other dudes hang with the girls you secretly like, then I recommend you implement this five part system:
Step 1- Don't be a girlfriend when you first meet a woman
The first step is to never become "a friend" with a woman. Instead of acting like her girlfriend when you first meet her, you should act like a man she would want to be with physically. In other words, there are certain things women observe that help them place guys into either the "friend" category or the "boyfriend" category.
To have her think of you in a "physical" way, you need to make it clear to her that you are a sexual being, and that it is obvious to her that you see her as girlfriend material.
Step 2- Make your presence mean something valuable
Now if you're already in a situation where you're *just friends* then you're going to have to do something dramatic.
You have to stop hanging out with her!
This means you stop making yourself so available. Stop calling, emailing, texting, and all of that nonsense. You have to make her appreciate your time, when you do give it to her.
Step 3- See other women
When you've stopped talking this girl, you have to date others. Either you can decide to stay friends with the girl you like or you can continue working towards making her your girlfriend.
Step 4- After a period without contact, get in touch with the girl again
Once you've dated different women for a few of months, you should make a decision about your lady friend. You've can either choose to be a friend or try to develop a physical relationship.
Make sure, when you first talk to her again, that you talk to her like a potential dating partner, not like a friend. In other words, don't act like her girlfriend. Instead turn the tables on her and make her think of you as boyfriend material.
Step 5- Treat her like a lady
You should now start acting in ways, now that you are talking again, that make her physically attracted to you. Flirt with her, making her feel like a little girl, ask her out on dates, like going to the movies and fun stuff she will remember.
To turn a friend into a girlfriend is not an easy chore. Women are naturally inclined to categorize men to the friend or boyfriend category pretty instantly. It will, ultimately, be up to you to turn the tables on her, and make her start thinking about being your girlfriend.
Keep the spotlight on her. Women really appreciate a guy who listens and gives thoughtful responses. The more details she shares about herself, the stronger the connection grows. (The bottom line is, you need to know how to ask her the right questions. Phrasing is everything.)
- Cut through the small talk and take it to a deeper level. When you're flirting with women, don't spend much time talking about jobs and other "serious" stuff. Mention the things you are most passionate about, and get her to share hers. (Get her to reveal a goal or a dream of hers, and be encouraging and supportive, and you're really in the door ... )
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