Wednesday, July 1, 2009

how to talk to girls

Okay, so you want to be cool and smooth around girls. The every guys' dream. Actually, you have big plans on approaching some girls tonight. I won't lie to you though. Most of the time, pick-up lines just don't work, no matter how trivial you think you're going to be. Well, to be brutally honest, pick-up lines spell doom. Girls can detect it, and for some reason, delivering pick-up lines can be a sign that you're desperate that you're delivering these sleazy shots in the hopes of starting a little chat that'll end up in sex.

Now before you start growling about how miserable your dating life is going to be, let me give you a tiny spark of hope. There are actually some clever pick up lines that earned its way to be worth mentioning. Well, most of them we're probably over-used but these lines can actually fascinate a woman into thinking you're really witty and smart and might just be interested enough to answer you beyond a yes or no. Remember, all women are different and they have different responses. But hey, no guts, no glory!

I'm sorry, were you talking to me? Her: No. Well then, please start. Do you have any raisins? No? How about a date? Do you have the time? (she gives you the time) No, the time to write my number down. I'm invisible. (Really?) Can you see me? (Yes) How about tomorrow night? Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living? Hi, can I buy you several drinks? I can sense that you're a terrific lover, and it intimidates me a little. Hi, the voices in my head told me to come over and talk to you. You with those curves, and me with no brakes ... Aw, girl, I'm gonna have to put you on my "To Do" List!

Organized children are typically successful children. Learning organizational skills helps kids develop their focus, concentration and motor skills. Below are four tips on how you can help your child be organized, develop skills and make smooth transitions between activities.

These organization tips may need to be adjusted depending on your toddler's age, abilities and learning style. You can use these tips as a reference guide.

#1 - Create an easy-to-use and maintain bin system for your child's supplies and toys. Separate the types of toys and supplies into individual bins. Take photographs of each type of toy or supply contained within and tape the photograph to the front of each corresponding bin.

For example: Place a photograph of Lego's to your child's bin that contains Lego's. Do the same with markers, plush toys, crayons, and so on. Even if the bins are clear (transparent), it will be easier for your child to be organized if s/he has a visual cue as to where their toys or supplies belong. Choose bins with easy to remove lids or no lids.

#2 - Display your kid's toys, supplies and clothing. It is easier for all toddler age children to stay organized if they can see their belongings. Drawers do not usually work well for young children. If you must use drawers, tape a photograph on the front of each drawer that corresponds to what is kept in the drawer. If possible do not combine items into one drawer, if you must put dividers in the drawers.

Install low hanging hooks that they can reach. One approach to teach and inspire them to use their hooks - Talk with your child about how they are a "big" boy or girl now. Babies throw their coats on the floor when they come into the house but "big" boys and girls hang theirs up, like mom and dad do. Most 2 and 3 year olds think of themselves as "big" and want to do things that "big" people do.

#3 - Set up daily routines and stick to them as much as you can. Creating and following regular daily routines can make transitioning from one activity to another less upsetting for you child. Toddlers tend to thrive on structure.

One helpful organizing routine -- Give your child a 10-minute heads-up before supper each day and then ask them set an egg timer for 10 minutes. Teach them that when the timer goes off, they are to pick up all of their supplies and toys and place them in the appropriate bins.

This daily exercise establishes a routine, lets your child know what to expect, gives them a 10-minute lead-time and then provides them a distinct audio clue when it's time to pick up and get organized. It is important to ask your children to set the egg timer, not you. It gets them more involved in the process and they will be more likely to follow through.

 An addition to this routine -- When the egg timer goes off and it's time to pick up and get organized, you could play a specific song that your child then recognizes as the "pick-up and get organized" song. This can make it fun, playful, soothing and also can help keep them on task and get the work done faster.

#4 Take your child's schedule and make it a picture schedule. Picture schedules work best toddlers and for all kids on the autistic spectrum. Set up the picture schedule so that when your child is finished with the task or activity they can move that corresponding picture to the all done side of their schedule. Basically you are creating an interactive picture schedule that your child can "control". Their picture schedule could also be organized by first, next, last. This gives them a specific order of the tasks and they can move the picture to the "completed" side.

To be help your toddler get and stay organized use visual aids and keep it simple. Each toddler reacts a little differently, has different learning styles and is functioning at varying levels so adjust as needed.

 

how to talk to girls

Learning How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend is one of the most challenging things in the world to learn on your own. That is why I am her to give you 5 simple steps to show you how to turn that friend into your girlfriend, and get out of the friend zone forever.

There are numerous men who want to change the status of their relationship with their girl friend.

The good news there is a step-by-step system you can follow that'll turn that female friend into your girlfriend. Now I have to warn you some of these techniques are a little intense. So if you 're not a brave person then I recommend you read no further...

But if you're tired of watching other dudes hang with the girls you secretly like, then I recommend you implement this five part system:

Step 1- Don't be a girlfriend when you first meet a woman

The first step is to never become "a friend" with a woman. Instead of acting like her girlfriend when you first meet her, you should act like a man she would want to be with physically. In other words, there are certain things women observe that help them place guys into either the "friend" category or the "boyfriend" category.

To have her think of you in a "physical" way, you need to make it clear to her that you are a sexual being, and that it is obvious to her that you see her as girlfriend material.

Step 2- Make your presence mean something valuable

Now if you're already in a situation where you're *just friends* then you're going to have to do something dramatic.

You have to stop hanging out with her!

This means you stop making yourself so available. Stop calling, emailing, texting, and all of that nonsense. You have to make her appreciate your time, when you do give it to her.

Step 3- See other women

When you've stopped talking this girl, you have to date others. Either you can decide to stay friends with the girl you like or you can continue working towards making her your girlfriend.

Step 4- After a period without contact, get in touch with the girl again

Once you've dated different women for a few of months, you should make a decision about your lady friend. You've can either choose to be a friend or try to develop a physical relationship.

Make sure, when you first talk to her again, that you talk to her like a potential dating partner, not like a friend. In other words, don't act like her girlfriend. Instead turn the tables on her and make her think of you as boyfriend material.

Step 5- Treat her like a lady

You should now start acting in ways, now that you are talking again, that make her physically attracted to you. Flirt with her, making her feel like a little girl, ask her out on dates, like going to the movies and fun stuff she will remember.

To turn a friend into a girlfriend is not an easy chore. Women are naturally inclined to categorize men to the friend or boyfriend category pretty instantly. It will, ultimately, be up to you to turn the tables on her, and make her start thinking about being your girlfriend.

 Keep the spotlight on her. Women really appreciate a guy who listens and gives thoughtful responses. The more details she shares about herself, the stronger the connection grows. (The bottom line is, you need to know how to ask her the right questions. Phrasing is everything.)

- Cut through the small talk and take it to a deeper level. When you're flirting with women, don't spend much time talking about jobs and other "serious" stuff. Mention the things you are most passionate about, and get her to share hers. (Get her to reveal a goal or a dream of hers, and be encouraging and supportive, and you're really in the door ... ) 

how to talk to girls

Here we are again at another crossroad in life, another business idea.

the world seems to have changed so rapidly and so have my business plans I'm the sort of person that really gets sucked into a vortex of obsessive compulsive proportions every time a break through profitable notion reveals itself in the form of a new business idea.

This time i would like to talk about my jewellery designer friend who has single handedly built a small empire with a gross turnover that would not ashamed some medium sized branded companies.

it's quite magnificent to really watch how the artists loving hands swirl gold strings to take shape and form a sturdy concubine that holds a crystal perhaps a pearl in such an inviting way that a necklace is born.

When i first saw the reactions generated by his handmade jewellery i was quite astonished to be honest...flocks upon herds of women with wide eyes and wet lips gasping in owe as they strategically position themselves between the other girls for that Swarovski crystal necklace over there.

For the last 5 years My friends has been making an honest and comfortable living from his own handmade jewellery creations. He buys raw materials such as 9ct gold, silver, semi precious stones, crystals and pearls.

There is even a website now www.9ctgoldnecklace.co.uk

Online sales is a very competitive area especially when it comes to Jewellery. Gold is one of the most stable currencies, During the last economic crises gold prices have almost reached 1000$ this is because of gold's ability to retain its value even in great depressions.

I have been researching the subject recently and have discovered that jewellery is one of the most competitive terms in the world! Some keywords on Google will loads up a staggering mind-blowing 33,000,000 results! This is a ridiculous amount of information for any human to go through quite honestly i have no intention of doing so myself! But why are there so many jewellery websites? are they all making money? are they all floating somewhere out there in cyber space with blinging ice gourmets trying to make a sale? I really don't know..

Back to Gold, Gold can come in many colors (White, Red, Rose and yellow) the color is normally affected by the mixture of metals used. There are also many Ct or Karat types of Gold - Ranging from 7.5K up to 24K 24K is the purest form of gold which is in its most pure form Liquid! Most Jewellery makers today use 14K-18K Gold or 9K which is very popular in handmade jewellery in the United Kingdom today.

9ct gold is a metal that has only 37.50% real gold within it but its quite durable and does not blacken or corrode over time. My designer friends loves to work with this material much because of its low cost that allows him to experiment greatly in the pursuit of new handmade necklaces and gold rings.

There are many tools used in the creations of a gold necklace or gold ring but the most important tool in my opinion is imagination. The Selection and available options are endless when it comes to jewellery design just about every combination is possible and available.

in conclusion,

There is much to know about the subject of handmade jewellery and jewellery design in general i hope to write some about this in the future but for now i can only say that life is short and one must aim high.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

How to Talk to Girls' movie adaptation: Please don't suck!

Another day, another advice book adaptation. Plans to turn 4th grader Alex Greven's relationship guide, How to Talk to Girls, into a feature film keep trucking along, with two scribes (Ben Karlin and Stu Zicherman) officially signing on to write the flick. I know I'm supposed to look at such a film and think, Aww, shucks, ain't it a cute that a book schooling jaded adults in the ways of the world will hit the big screen? But nope. I can't. Maybe it's because I can't believe that any nine year old could actually spout out good dating advice, since most male youngsters roped me into conversation in elementary school by punching me in the shoulder and calling me "Kate Wart." Or maybe it's the fact that last night's I'm a Celebrity... has made me lose all faith in humanity in general. But, more likely, it's probably because this genre hasn't been executed too well as of late, what with He's Just Not That Into You and Fireproof bombing with critics.

But that's not to say that How to Talk to Girls can't be successful. Just look at some of the more winning advice-book adaptations: Mean Girls and Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex* (*But Were Afraid to Ask). Of course, we're not going to see a nine year old's piece of work adapted into a racy, eccentric, Woody Allen masterpiece. But with Night at the Museum director Shawn Levy at the helm, we could see a fun family movie that I can only hope comes complete with pocket-sized versions of Owen Wilson. (I'm joking, of course. Maybe.) And there's another reason to be hopeful: Screenwriter Karlin is a writer and executive producer of The Daily Show. That, thankfully, makes me believe that Girls won't take itself too seriously and turn into some form of precocious schlock starring Abigail Breslin and Patrick Dempsey.

Thoughts, PopWatchers? Are you excited for Girls? Do you, like me, think Hollywood should get into the habit of turning advice books into movies as rarely as possible?

How To Talk To Women…and Not Bomb!

If you had the ability to separate yourself from yourself and watch you approach a girl what would it look like? Would we watch your best rendition of a deer in headlights or someone who actually knew how to talk to girls? Even if you believe you are someone who knows how to talk to girls, you may want to keep reading as well, you may discover a thing or two. If your best move is the deer in headlights you will most definitely want to keep reading. Talking to girls doesn’t have to be difficult and the more you talk to girls the more comfortable you’ll get. Remember, girls are regular people just like your accountant, guy friends, classmates but only prettier. They need people to converse to them on normal topics as well. You don’t need a super interesting topic to talk about to a girl, just the will power to start a conversation with an attractive girl. There are some tips to remember however once you get a conversation going such as honestly listening, using your surroundings to talk about interesting enough relevant topics, being natural, and making a great lasting impression leaving more to be desired.

When talking to a girl, speaking is half the battle. Make sure you are honestly listening and not just thinking about the next topic. Pick up on what a woman says and use that to keep the conversation going. A girl can tell if you are listening to her or not and it is a big turn off if she gets the vibe that you aren’t truly listening to what she has to say. Make sure you seem interested in what she has to say and the best way to do that is to give great eye contact and to have a nice relevant comment after she speaks! Being interested allows her to speak more which in turn allows you to speak less. The less you talk, the more mysterious you are to her Girls for some reason are interested in men they don’t know much about, guys that have a mysterious appeal to them. Don’t reveal too much of yourself and be read like an open book.Of course, that doesn’t mean to give your best interpretation of a tree, but I am just saying to make sure to honestly listen to what she has to say.

One thing to remember is that you don’t have to have the most gripping subject to talk about in order to approach a girl. Use the surroundings around you to pick a topic. If you are the library, talk about what book you were inspired to read and how you got inspired to read that book. That right there is an interesting enough topic to talk about. You don’t have to be the most interesting man in the world, just someone who is willingly going to listen to what she has to say and have comments to respond back. You don’t have to start the conversation with a bang, any relevant topic is going to work well.

When knowing how to talk to girls, things are just going to come naturally. That is something to remember, especially if you are still nervous about how to talk to girls. Yes, you can plan what you are going to say and such but don’t plan everything right to the dot. Make sure the conversation flows in the direction it is flowing and do not try to stay on a plan just because you feel more in control that way.Going with the flow usually is going to produce favorable outcomes.

Lastly, if the conversation is going well, end it right there. You want to end things on a great note.This makes her want more as well as keeps you as mysterious. We mentioned the mysterious point earlier in this article and this last tip is going to seal the deal with that. Leaving a great conversation with a girl on a high note is the best thing as it leaves a lasting impression. It lets her know that you have your own life to live and that you have other things going on in your life. At this point you may want to ask for an email address so you can maybe continue this interesting conversation later on when you are not so busy with other things. Of course these are only a few tips you should keep in mind when knowing how to talk to girls, there are much more in depth tips and techniques you can dive into. Nonetheless, with these dating advice tips in mind you are well on your way to learning how to talk to girls successfully.